That's Why Allah Married You To Him
Perhaps your husband is not good at speaking, Especially in wooing with literary romance...
But maybe that's how Allah keeps his tongue. Keeping him away from the forbidden temptations of the world...
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Perhaps your husband is not good at speaking...
But his silence makes us refrain from speaking too much. Breaking the chain of argumentative sentences that create problems. So that the balance of the atmosphere is more maintained...
If Allah had created the opposite, Perhaps your home would be like a wrestling arena. Ah...that's why Allah has married you to him. It was destined, I married him.
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Perhaps your wife is not stunningly beautiful, Specially as beautiful as celebrities in the news...
But maybe her words are always filled with pearls. Radiating from a preserved soul...
If Allah had created the opposite, Perhaps your heart would not be at peace when far from her. Ah...that's why Allah has married you to her. It was destined, I married her.
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Perhaps your husband is not a wealthy merchant, Who brings home an abundance of profits from his business...
But even if the amount is so simple. Perhaps he always keeps what he brings halal...
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Perhaps your husband is not a high-ranking official. Who is respected and worshipped by his subordinates...
But maybe behind his ordinary position. He can be respected imam for the family...
If Allah had created the opposite, Perhaps he may not have the same level of piety. Ah...that's why Allah has married you to him. It was destined, I married him.
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Perhaps your wife is not an exceptional cook, Whose cooking is as delicious as in a restaurant.
But maybe she is skilled at raising her children. Molding their characters into nobility.
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Perhaps your wife is not an exceptional cook, Whose cooking is often repetitive...
But maybe she is skilled at managing the household budget. So that your contributions are not wasted.
If Allah had created the opposite, Perhaps your love for her would be too excessive. Exceeding your love for Allah, the giver of blessings. Ah...that's why Allah has married you to her. It was destined, I married her.
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Perhaps your husband is not skilled in caring for the children. Making it seem like you're doing everything...
But maybe he patiently helps you. Easing the household chores. So that everything is done in collaboration...
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Perhaps your husband is not skilled in caring for the children. Making it seem like his role in the family is minimal...
But maybe he works so hard. So that the sustenance is sufficient through him...
If Allah had created the opposite, Perhaps many girls would be waiting to be his second choice. If your husband were too perfect. Aaa...that's why Allah has married you to him. It was destined, I married him.
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Perhaps your wife is not skilled in managing the household. Unable to turn the house into a neat place...
But maybe she is so clever at math. So that intelligent children are born from her due to genetics...
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Perhaps your wife is not skilled in managing the household. Adding a little to your tasks to help her work...
But maybe she is so faithful in practicing religion. Guiding the children in the framework of religious law. Easing your obligation in guiding the family...
If Allah had created the opposite, Perhaps you would feel that your tasks have been perfectly fulfilled. Simply completing the family's sustenance. Aaa...that's why Allah has married you to her. It was destined, I married her.
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Believe it... There is always goodness in every decree of Allah, the Director. So find as many secrets behind it as possible. So that you understand why Allah has married you to him/her...
If you still find it difficult to find the answer. Change the lens of your eyes to the lens of gratitude for all blessings...
It is your right to hope that your Khadijah becomes perfect. As long as you are willing to guide her to become your Muhammad.
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